Dealing With Bullies
Bullies are predictable. They will want to lower your resources, lower your troops, and get your leader in jail. Also, some of them will attack you just because of their pleasure to see others disgraced. But their harm is possible to avoid with these strategies:
1) If your leader is not available (in shelter or in garrisons with someone who is shielded), they can't take your leader.
2) If your troops are not available (in the shelter, in garrisons, in a fake darknest, or in reinforcement in someone who is shielded) they can't kill your troops.
3) If your resources are not available, because you sent them previously to the guild bank, they can't farm you. For resource protection, I suggest you not take resources out of your bag unless you are going to use them immediately. Moreover, if you farm and get extra resources your vault can´t protect, you can send them to the guild's bank which is always shielded. When you need the resources you sent before, just send the bank a private message.
4) Have enough infirmary beds so your troops at your turf will only be wounded, you won't need to start everything from 0.
5) Never pay a ransom to enemies who captured your leader. You don't want to give the bully an incentive to keep attacking you.
6) If a bully is messaging you. Do not reply.
7) Increase your might, build a turf trap, and craft good gears, and they will think twice about attacking you. They want what´s easy and guaranteed.
8) Don´t attack back the bullies. Don´t waste time and resources with them, keep growing while they spend tons of gems and relocators for bullying and not for their growth. Get strong to don't let the bullies get the wonders, and they will see how they bully in vain.
My hero was taken!
What to do?
If even working to don't let your leader be taken, you got distracted, and the bully got you, don't panic. You will get your hero back for free if you're patient. The game may use some dramatic animations, like showing the leader crying in jail every time you log in, and a clock running out the time until he has his head cut off, but don't worry, it's not as bad as you may think. Even with the leader captured, you can use it in Colosseum for your daily gems. The only thing you will get in damage, and just for a while, is the talent points bonuses, and they are also back soon if you are patient. So, if it happens:
1) Don't pay ransoms to the enemies, don't message the bully, and don't set rewards. It will only motivate them to keep attacking your castle. Save your gold for your castle's improvement, don't give it to the bully, they are rude, and don't deserve it.
2) Buy a revival fruit with guild coins, and wait for the execution.
3) Don't use accelerators, do only small research and constructions. You will keep increasing anyway during these 2 days.
4) Message your guild leader. The R5 is your friend. If you need resources to heal troops or a motivational text, the leader will be there for you. Also, the leader needs to know which guilds are attacking, understand their behavior, find their weakness, and plan ways to beat them in the future. Even, depending on the situation, with diplomacy, the R5 may be able to set your leader free.
How does a bully mind work?
Bullies come in all shapes and sizes. Over time, most of us have to deal with a bully, not only in real life but also in virtual environments. Keep focus, don't change your behavior because of them. Here are some things bullies will want from you:
1) Attention: Do not show the bullies that you feel hurt and they've succeeded in affecting you; just walk away as if you didn't mind it. Bullies gain satisfaction from making others feel hurt or uncomfortable, so reacting to them will only encourage them further. The bully wants attention and if you show them that they are emotionally hurting you, they will get more pleasure out of doing it again and again.
2) Weakness: Bullies wanna make you feel weak and doubt yourself. Sometimes we think they can take everything we have away from us. Believe that you are stronger than they are. That's because deep down you are stronger than they are, and stronger than they ever will be. Show your strength and do not change your original plans and paths because they made you feel you are not good enough.
3) Proximity: bullies will wanna be in touch with you. If they can't find you, they can't bully you. Try your best to avoid contact with them.
4) Do not make jokes at your own expense to try to prove that there is nothing that the bully can do to hurt your feelings: This will only please the bully, and they will often chip in with their ridicule and humiliation to lower your self-esteem. You're just sinking to their level with the target still being yourself. Don't do the same as they do, it won't get you out victim's position, and won't end the bully cycle.
Don't bully others just because of what you lived. Believe in yourself, show your example, be aware and smart, and don't fall into their tricks. Don't change who you are because of other's misery.
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